No don´t tell me. I know all too well that we are draining.

I just want to let everybody know: Capricorns feel You. Deeeeeeeeeply.

We feel you...

Hey Kat, I get along great with Scorps...so do other Cappies I know.
We both understand respect and loyalty. In fact, we do not have friendships where this is not cornerstone.
Both signs can have control issues-being we both like to be the one in control and are good at being in control...

I think that is where it can ruin things between us.
But I dont see it ruin the friendship around me...and I dont see that as the norm elsewhere either

When it comes to friendships I agree with Oneinmotion. I have a scorpio friend. She often hangs around with our friend the crab, but me and her got a special tie. She helps me anyway she can, even with money (now if that´s not a friend...). Still I think my extreme and seemingly cold ways get on her nerve, but I love her so much and follow her around all the time that she can´t get rid of me.

No, we Cappy's don't see with rose-colored glasses, that is for sure.
But if you look at the stages of grief, anger is a part of that.
An what you are doing is grieving a loss.
It's good that you are channeling your anger. I know it can be overwhelming.
When I was venting it was very consuming for me. Like the rush of a tidal wave. Or a Hurricane...lol...
And also very therapudic to express those very intense feelings..
At first, I directed mine at my ex and really pushed his buttons to make sure he hated me back. I gace him a full assessment and nailed him with everything...It did feel good to get under his skin....
BUT it was only a temporary comfort and all it did was exchange more negative energy, it didnt really get rid of it. As I learn, what we do to others we really do to ourselves as well.
Eventually I did talk calmly with my ex and we made peace. It was more of a truce..then an acceptance...also part of the 5 stages of grief...
But Pluto/Pluto is a very challenging aspect. Don't fell like you have to rush yourself through the process, and express your anger as it comes...if you hold it in your system it will act like cancer and be very destructive to other areas of your being too.....
There will come a time when you can put it behind you. I really hate for people to tell me the a"dvantages of time" speech,
but honestly, they are right. I sometines just want what I want when I want it. Healthy for me or not.
When I dont get what I want, it is hard to swallow.
But that relationship was not what I needed and time has shown me that and changed a lot for me...
Also look to things that you know restore you and connect to them. Travel, culture, fred astaire movies, poetry....what ever it is...
and see what you can do to give yourself some of your own well-deserved attention instead of giving that energy to that jerk....
I am just sharing my thoughts here with you. If your relationship was anything like mine, I know this is a real challenge for you.
But you know when it is all said and done that we Capricorn women are natural born climbers and we don't give up
and we DO get out of whatever we need to... and ALWAYS end up on top. It just works out like that.. take care!.