Alright, who's actually looking?

topic posted Mon, September 3, 2007 - 12:02 PM by  Munk
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How many of you, scorpios or not, are actively looking for a partner for whatever type of relationship you want? In real life or on-line, doesn't matter. I'd like to know how it's going for you and maybe if on-line is your thing you might run into someone you like here. As for myself, I'm looking for a scorpio guy or girl that's serious about nurturing a loving relationship and building something real together. I say scorpios because so far they've been the only sign that 'gets' me totally. I'm very open minded and have no fear of experimentation. I hope we can all have a bit of luck finding each other here or wherever we seek out others. Good luck! Love to all!:)
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  • Re: Alright, who's actually looking?

    Wed, September 5, 2007 - 1:59 PM
    Wow, good post!
    Actually looking = No
    Type of Relationship (don't really have time for anything serious, I like sex though, but I'm picky about that too)
    Real life = if I had my way, Yes
    On-line = may be old-fashioned, never really tried it

    Quite honestly, I find it hard sometimes being a Scorpio. I'm so perceptive and intuitive that most of the time I find that I would prefer being friends with the guy instead of being his girl for my own mental sanity. I find that I would have to play tricks on my mind or dumb myself down to play the game... I hate that I try to ignore flags on the play and warning signs just to try to make it work...

    Not being grouchy, just keepin it real..
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      Thu, September 6, 2007 - 5:49 AM
      I'm always looking...LOL I'm just not sure what it is I am looking for. I am in a relationship right now but it's up and down. I'm not really looking for anything in particular but am open for deep, comunicative, bonding relationships. I guess that is why I come here. *wink*
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        Fri, February 29, 2008 - 11:19 AM
        I am looking, i mean sure... I am busy right now with school though, and I moved to a new place/state.
        well, anyone from CONNECTICUT? perhaps not, this state seems to be boring. eh

        I seem to get along with scorps pretty well tho, they are such sweethearts, cant believe so many people disagree! The two amazing scorps I've dated were fun, intense, mysterious (which i actually love), honest, loyal, and so much more! :)

        anyways, take care everyone! Hope you find what you're looking for.
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      Fri, September 7, 2007 - 6:45 AM
      It can make any woman crazy in the head dealing with a relationship. But depending on how badly you want it to work, you'll do what you have to. But! Don't EVER play down youre own beautiful personality. That's just cheating yourself.
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        Sat, September 8, 2007 - 7:59 AM
        I don't have a flying fuck of a clue what I'm looking for. I just dont trust the human race in all its miserable evil. Sometimes it all gets me so down I just wanna die. But, on a lighter note, I'm on here to see if anyone can semi-relate to me.
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          Re: Alright, who's actually looking?

          Sat, September 8, 2007 - 8:02 AM
          and also munk, you don't think it drives a man insane dealing with a relationship? hell maybe on second though its just me. I dont know.
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            Sat, September 8, 2007 - 2:45 PM
            It's not easy for men or women to be in a relationship. It's a lot of work, constant communication, and demands a high level of trust. But I think it's worth it if you can find someone you really love. I haven't lost all hope, just a little discouraged.
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      Fri, March 27, 2009 - 11:52 AM
      So true! With 95% of the people I just cast a glance at, I already perceive the facade, superficiality and game playing. If I'm interested, I'm interested. Why would I want to make you want to believe I'm not? I find these games a waist of energy that could otherwise be devoted to really getting to know one another.
      Unfortunately, this only leaves me with a margin of 5%.
  • Re: Alright, who's actually looking?

    Sat, September 8, 2007 - 8:12 AM
    i'm looking but don't meet anyone where is everybody hiding
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      Sat, September 8, 2007 - 12:26 PM
      Ok, this has gone too far, first we had Sagitarians here on the "Scorpio" board humbly insulting our intelligence. Now we have Capricorns here intimidating Scorpios, calling us shallow, questioning our qualities and pissing people off in order to "MEET SCORPIOS???" My question for the SCORPS is....DO YOU EVER GO TO OTHER MESSAGE BOARDS JUST FOR THE SHEAR FACT OF STARTING TROUBLE. Shit!!!! Where does it end. DRAMA, CHAOS DAMN!!!
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        Wed, November 7, 2007 - 4:40 AM
        <<My question for the SCORPS is....DO YOU EVER GO TO OTHER MESSAGE BOARDS JUST FOR THE SHEER FACT OF STARTING TROUBLE. Shit!!!! Where does it end? DRAMA, CHAOS DAMN!!! >>

        Hmm... you know, I haven't. But now that you mention it, sounds like it might be fun! *evil grin* but, I have other hobbies to occupy my time, so maybe not.


        As far as looking or not, yes, I'm looking, but not looking to settle. I'm demanding, and I get bored easily if I'm not properly stimulated. But if you push the right buttons I will definitely make it worth your while. ^_^ Looking for beautiful, no holds barred, deep, authentic joyful, playful connections.
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    Sat, September 15, 2007 - 6:12 AM
    I'm not really looking. Oddly enough, I was thinking about this just yesterday. I truly enjoy my independence and my freedom and the last thing I want is to loose that to a relationship. I don't like just "dating" because it's too shallow and seems a tad silly to me. It's a bit of a waste of time, really, when I can tell right away if I'm clicking witha guy or not and whether I want to sleep with him or not. Maybe I'm just shallow and not interested in what lies beneath a person, but sometimes - most of the time - if I don't think I could sleep with the guy, then I'm just not too interested in bothering with the dating and such. If I can't imagine being naked with him, I don't want to bother with the rest of it.

    I'd enjoy a loving partnership with the right man, but there are so many pieces of that puzzle that have to be in place. Besides, I totally dig just being me and my freedom.

    Geesh - I sound like a tart.
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    Sat, October 6, 2007 - 12:41 AM
    I'm doing a lot of chatting. But, looking? Maybe everyone is in some way.

    I would like to be with someone....I made a post back in Aug about being single.

    There are a few prospects...But, really I don't take people too seriously these days. They can talk all they want. I want to see effort and action.

    I want someone to respect me, cherish me, grow with me, accept me faults and all....and call me on my bullshit when I fuck up. Apparently, that is asking a lot these days...
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      Sat, October 6, 2007 - 11:28 AM
      Naaah, that's not asking a lot. If you wanted a man to worship the ground you walk on then you should ask for it, of course if you are willing to give back equally :) Don't ever accept anything less than your heart's desire. If you do than it wont work out. :)

      Hugs...Bobbi
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      Mon, October 15, 2007 - 11:32 AM
      no marnie, that isn't asking a whole lot. In fact, I would be happy to give those things to a relationship as I'm sure many guys would, but I've done just that and gotten burned and screwed over. It isn't easy to recover from a betrayal completely.
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    Sun, October 14, 2007 - 8:05 PM
    I always wanted a scorpio man because they are smart, loyal and I like their mysterious ways... I was so in love by a scorpio guy years ago, we always had eye contact and we were like hypnotized, I never felt that way from a guy like I felt for him... he understood me and I understood him... we loved the same kind of music... we were passionate... however as some scorpio guys, he was living two relationships, with me and other person, I didnt know that and I got kind of upset when I knew it... well however I know that there are good scorpio men, SINGLES? I need one... I dont have any relationship with somebody now, and I am a very pure woman actually, so hard to find nowadays... my birthday will be soon so i want to be happy... haha I am kidding well I hope I could have good luck in life finding a person like he was... (but not with other woman) no no SINGLE!
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      Mon, October 15, 2007 - 11:36 AM
      you are a very pure woman? WHERE DO YOU LIVE???? LOL. you're right that is rare these days. As a Scorpio Rising man I have a hard time finding a woman with values that she will stand up for. as for being a good guy, hell, I usually get called an evil bastard just because I stand up for my definition of right and wrong.
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        Mon, October 15, 2007 - 7:07 PM
        As you can see, there are women like me... nothing is impossible in life. I am not a bad looking woman, however, I am afraid of attachment and intimacy, I used to be like this since I was a teen... I found that it is a scorpio moon trait... I found from people who have the same traits... have you heard the song from Moby -- Extreme Ways www.youtube.com/watch watch the video and tell me your opinion... This song tells a lot about my feelings and the reactions I get about life and interaction ... it might identify you ---read the lyrics... great song. As I say i am still a very pure woman even when having my scorpionic traits in me... we can be pure or dirty it is up to us!
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    Fri, December 28, 2007 - 10:52 PM
    Funny...
    I'm actively looking but haven't found anything worth all the hype. Yet.
    I've got a great circle of friends and a great sex partner who could be a serious contender but he says that I'm too much 4 him, that with all of his strengths I'm still the stronger of the two of us and 4 a man like him that's more than enough! guess I haven't found a man stronger than me. And I'm damned strong..! That's my struggle: finding someone just as strong or stronger, who is very willing 2 build and nurture a real lasting loving relationship 4 the long term. I have decided 2 focus more on me and become even more comfortable in my single skin. I get love from my firends and sex 4 a good man which will have 2 suffice 4 now. Who knows, I may have the set up 4 my lifetime and I've got 2 be happy about it!
    -Mahogany
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    Wed, January 23, 2008 - 8:42 AM
    Always willing but never looking...8-)
    A relationship can be wonderful thing true but it also takes allot of time and energy!
    My last relationship took so much energy that the effects have not worn off yet...
    I go out with friends but I am often oblivious to possible mates because I'm just not in that frame of mind.
    Someday it will just happen as it has before...but until then freedom and the bliss of solitude ROCKS! lol

    G-Lost Boy
  • Re: Alright, who's actually looking?

    Wed, April 29, 2009 - 5:37 AM
    having recently gotten out of a LTR with a very hard headed sun-aries/ moon-capricorn person , i'm looking/hoping to find a nice watery emotionally-intelligent and sensual pisces/cancer/scorpio woman ...

    om mani padme hum
  • Re: Alright, who's actually looking?

    Fri, May 15, 2009 - 4:48 PM
    For a relationship....
    No.
    For a booty call...
    ALWAYS.
    Preferably someone who knows how to use handcuffs ;)

    If I ever do want another committed relationship it would have to b with a Pisces..... with a lot of earth in his chart... God, I love me a good Pisces man.

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