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How many of you, scorpios or not, are actively looking for a partner for whatever type of relationship you want? In real life or on-line, doesn't matter. I'd like to know how it's going for you and maybe if on-line is your thing you might run into someone you like here. As for myself, I'm looking for a scorpio guy or girl that's serious about nurturing a loving relationship and building something real together. I say scorpios because so far they've been the only sign that 'gets' me totally. I'm very open minded and have no fear of experimentation. I hope we can all have a bit of luck finding each other here or wherever we seek out others. Good luck! Love to all!:)
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Mon, September 3, 2007 - 5:16 PMi'm kinda looking, but in a lazy way.
well, ok, i'm not really looking.
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Mon, September 3, 2007 - 5:19 PMYes, it is very nice when the other person is into it also. It gets so tiresome trying to find a quality guy that is past playing games and ready to be serious. You just get to a point in your life where you just want more. -
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Mon, September 3, 2007 - 7:22 PMequally tiresome trying to find a quality girl etc etc etc... -
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Mon, September 3, 2007 - 8:52 PMI am looking, but it is very hard to find a woman who likes me for me -
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Wed, September 12, 2007 - 4:18 AMTo all you wonderful scorpios, remember the powers that you have instinctively. You can attract exactly the person you are wanting. Know what you want, believe it, focus your thoughts on the qualities of this person and hey presto-bliss. It is easy to attract the one, be mindful of what your thoughts are.
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Mon, September 24, 2007 - 5:17 PMFound one!
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Mon, September 3, 2007 - 9:03 PMwow, so coming back here it occurs to me that may have come across in a very different way than i meant it... -
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Tue, September 4, 2007 - 5:13 AMlol....so how did you mean it exactly? -
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Wed, September 5, 2007 - 10:13 PMwhat i meant was more or less the same qualities you were talking about.
i was a little worried for a min cuz...well, i dunno...i didn't want it to seem like i was saying there aren't quality girls out there... -
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Fri, September 7, 2007 - 6:44 AMYes, plenty of good quality ladies out there. But where have all the quality guys gone to? -
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Sat, September 8, 2007 - 3:05 AMwell, this one went to tucson... -
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Sat, September 8, 2007 - 6:22 AMI have the worst luck looking for local guys. It's a bit 'country' out here and I don't care for the cowboy look.
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Fri, January 23, 2009 - 7:59 PMIt never happens when I'm looking. ...So even if I'm looking, ....I'm not looking...(;
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Wed, September 5, 2007 - 1:59 PMWow, good post!
Actually looking = No
Type of Relationship (don't really have time for anything serious, I like sex though, but I'm picky about that too)
Real life = if I had my way, Yes
On-line = may be old-fashioned, never really tried it
Quite honestly, I find it hard sometimes being a Scorpio. I'm so perceptive and intuitive that most of the time I find that I would prefer being friends with the guy instead of being his girl for my own mental sanity. I find that I would have to play tricks on my mind or dumb myself down to play the game... I hate that I try to ignore flags on the play and warning signs just to try to make it work...
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Thu, September 6, 2007 - 5:49 AMI'm always looking...LOL I'm just not sure what it is I am looking for. I am in a relationship right now but it's up and down. I'm not really looking for anything in particular but am open for deep, comunicative, bonding relationships. I guess that is why I come here. *wink* -
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Sun, September 9, 2007 - 3:04 AMBobbi says.. "I'm always looking...LOL I'm just not sure what it is I am looking for. I am in a relationship right now"
Aren't Scorp's meant to be loyal Bobbi?
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Fri, February 29, 2008 - 11:19 AMI am looking, i mean sure... I am busy right now with school though, and I moved to a new place/state.
well, anyone from CONNECTICUT? perhaps not, this state seems to be boring. eh
I seem to get along with scorps pretty well tho, they are such sweethearts, cant believe so many people disagree! The two amazing scorps I've dated were fun, intense, mysterious (which i actually love), honest, loyal, and so much more! :)
anyways, take care everyone! Hope you find what you're looking for.
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Fri, September 7, 2007 - 6:45 AMIt can make any woman crazy in the head dealing with a relationship. But depending on how badly you want it to work, you'll do what you have to. But! Don't EVER play down youre own beautiful personality. That's just cheating yourself. -
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Sat, September 8, 2007 - 7:59 AMI don't have a flying fuck of a clue what I'm looking for. I just dont trust the human race in all its miserable evil. Sometimes it all gets me so down I just wanna die. But, on a lighter note, I'm on here to see if anyone can semi-relate to me. -
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Sat, September 8, 2007 - 8:02 AMand also munk, you don't think it drives a man insane dealing with a relationship? hell maybe on second though its just me. I dont know. -
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Sat, September 8, 2007 - 2:45 PMIt's not easy for men or women to be in a relationship. It's a lot of work, constant communication, and demands a high level of trust. But I think it's worth it if you can find someone you really love. I haven't lost all hope, just a little discouraged.
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Fri, March 27, 2009 - 11:52 AMSo true! With 95% of the people I just cast a glance at, I already perceive the facade, superficiality and game playing. If I'm interested, I'm interested. Why would I want to make you want to believe I'm not? I find these games a waist of energy that could otherwise be devoted to really getting to know one another.
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Fri, March 27, 2009 - 4:56 PMI mean *waste* (how terrible)
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Sat, September 8, 2007 - 8:12 AMi'm looking but don't meet anyone where is everybody hiding -
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Sat, September 8, 2007 - 12:26 PMOk, this has gone too far, first we had Sagitarians here on the "Scorpio" board humbly insulting our intelligence. Now we have Capricorns here intimidating Scorpios, calling us shallow, questioning our qualities and pissing people off in order to "MEET SCORPIOS???" My question for the SCORPS is....DO YOU EVER GO TO OTHER MESSAGE BOARDS JUST FOR THE SHEAR FACT OF STARTING TROUBLE. Shit!!!! Where does it end. DRAMA, CHAOS DAMN!!! -
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Sat, September 8, 2007 - 2:44 PMIt is a lot of drama isn't it? I wish people would go the cappie board, and others, just for someone different to talk to. I wasn't insulting anyone, honest.:( I was just trying to understand... -
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Sat, September 8, 2007 - 4:53 PMI dunno, I see a lot of stating questions rather than asking them. Just my opinion. It's annoying, slightly.
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Wed, November 7, 2007 - 4:40 AM<<My question for the SCORPS is....DO YOU EVER GO TO OTHER MESSAGE BOARDS JUST FOR THE SHEER FACT OF STARTING TROUBLE. Shit!!!! Where does it end? DRAMA, CHAOS DAMN!!! >>
Hmm... you know, I haven't. But now that you mention it, sounds like it might be fun! *evil grin* but, I have other hobbies to occupy my time, so maybe not.
As far as looking or not, yes, I'm looking, but not looking to settle. I'm demanding, and I get bored easily if I'm not properly stimulated. But if you push the right buttons I will definitely make it worth your while. ^_^ Looking for beautiful, no holds barred, deep, authentic joyful, playful connections.
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Sat, September 15, 2007 - 6:12 AMI'm not really looking. Oddly enough, I was thinking about this just yesterday. I truly enjoy my independence and my freedom and the last thing I want is to loose that to a relationship. I don't like just "dating" because it's too shallow and seems a tad silly to me. It's a bit of a waste of time, really, when I can tell right away if I'm clicking witha guy or not and whether I want to sleep with him or not. Maybe I'm just shallow and not interested in what lies beneath a person, but sometimes - most of the time - if I don't think I could sleep with the guy, then I'm just not too interested in bothering with the dating and such. If I can't imagine being naked with him, I don't want to bother with the rest of it.
I'd enjoy a loving partnership with the right man, but there are so many pieces of that puzzle that have to be in place. Besides, I totally dig just being me and my freedom.
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Sat, September 15, 2007 - 9:11 AMOlder I get the less I want to fall into an exclusive relation.
I've been married twice and want n othing to do with that marital bullshit ever again ...
Sex is all I need .
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Sat, September 15, 2007 - 3:37 PMHere in beautiful Hawaii and still looking for the love of my life : ) -
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Sat, September 15, 2007 - 7:06 PMYou're so lucky to be there! I've always wanted to see it. Maybe one day....
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Sat, October 6, 2007 - 12:41 AMI'm doing a lot of chatting. But, looking? Maybe everyone is in some way.
I would like to be with someone....I made a post back in Aug about being single.
There are a few prospects...But, really I don't take people too seriously these days. They can talk all they want. I want to see effort and action.
I want someone to respect me, cherish me, grow with me, accept me faults and all....and call me on my bullshit when I fuck up. Apparently, that is asking a lot these days... -
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Sat, October 6, 2007 - 11:28 AMNaaah, that's not asking a lot. If you wanted a man to worship the ground you walk on then you should ask for it, of course if you are willing to give back equally :) Don't ever accept anything less than your heart's desire. If you do than it wont work out. :)
Hugs...Bobbi
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Mon, October 15, 2007 - 11:32 AMno marnie, that isn't asking a whole lot. In fact, I would be happy to give those things to a relationship as I'm sure many guys would, but I've done just that and gotten burned and screwed over. It isn't easy to recover from a betrayal completely.
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Sun, October 14, 2007 - 8:05 PMI always wanted a scorpio man because they are smart, loyal and I like their mysterious ways... I was so in love by a scorpio guy years ago, we always had eye contact and we were like hypnotized, I never felt that way from a guy like I felt for him... he understood me and I understood him... we loved the same kind of music... we were passionate... however as some scorpio guys, he was living two relationships, with me and other person, I didnt know that and I got kind of upset when I knew it... well however I know that there are good scorpio men, SINGLES? I need one... I dont have any relationship with somebody now, and I am a very pure woman actually, so hard to find nowadays... my birthday will be soon so i want to be happy... haha I am kidding well I hope I could have good luck in life finding a person like he was... (but not with other woman) no no SINGLE! -
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Mon, October 15, 2007 - 11:36 AMyou are a very pure woman? WHERE DO YOU LIVE???? LOL. you're right that is rare these days. As a Scorpio Rising man I have a hard time finding a woman with values that she will stand up for. as for being a good guy, hell, I usually get called an evil bastard just because I stand up for my definition of right and wrong. -
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Mon, October 15, 2007 - 7:07 PMAs you can see, there are women like me... nothing is impossible in life. I am not a bad looking woman, however, I am afraid of attachment and intimacy, I used to be like this since I was a teen... I found that it is a scorpio moon trait... I found from people who have the same traits... have you heard the song from Moby -- Extreme Ways www.youtube.com/watch watch the video and tell me your opinion... This song tells a lot about my feelings and the reactions I get about life and interaction ... it might identify you ---read the lyrics... great song. As I say i am still a very pure woman even when having my scorpionic traits in me... we can be pure or dirty it is up to us! -
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Tue, October 16, 2007 - 5:59 AMNaw, I am by no means afraid of attachment and intimacy, if fact I long for it. But yeah the lyrics of that songs fit me pretty well.
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Fri, December 28, 2007 - 10:52 PMFunny...
I'm actively looking but haven't found anything worth all the hype. Yet.
I've got a great circle of friends and a great sex partner who could be a serious contender but he says that I'm too much 4 him, that with all of his strengths I'm still the stronger of the two of us and 4 a man like him that's more than enough! guess I haven't found a man stronger than me. And I'm damned strong..! That's my struggle: finding someone just as strong or stronger, who is very willing 2 build and nurture a real lasting loving relationship 4 the long term. I have decided 2 focus more on me and become even more comfortable in my single skin. I get love from my firends and sex 4 a good man which will have 2 suffice 4 now. Who knows, I may have the set up 4 my lifetime and I've got 2 be happy about it!
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Sun, January 20, 2008 - 5:48 PMLooking but... Sorta not very hard... hehe...
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Wed, January 23, 2008 - 8:42 AMAlways willing but never looking...8-)
A relationship can be wonderful thing true but it also takes allot of time and energy!
My last relationship took so much energy that the effects have not worn off yet...
I go out with friends but I am often oblivious to possible mates because I'm just not in that frame of mind.
Someday it will just happen as it has before...but until then freedom and the bliss of solitude ROCKS! lol
G-Lost Boy
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Thu, January 24, 2008 - 10:39 PMWell I'm kind of wandering aimlessly, with my eyes closed, just trying not to bump into things. But a nice soft something that I could come away from unscathed is always a plus.
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Fri, January 25, 2008 - 3:48 PMWinter is worst time to find someone in my experience ...
no one is in receptive mode ...
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Fri, January 25, 2008 - 3:58 PMIt's cuz it's the hibernation season and people are also probably more down. Weather really does have an impact on people's moods. Plus, in the warmer months, people are usually wearing less clothing :P -
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Fri, January 25, 2008 - 8:26 PMfuck all that. winter is the perfect time to have someone to cuddle w/next to the fire & such, & help you keep warm at night... -
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Fri, January 25, 2008 - 10:20 PMdave,
That's why you meet the person during the summer, so that by the winter you'll have your snuggle bunny to keep you warm.
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Wed, January 30, 2008 - 11:19 AMi am so looking! would love to skip all the bullshit and just settle down but tis not the world we live in . i hate dateing! why cant it be like goin to the grocery store pick out what you like and if its damaged take it back lmao! that would be great -
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Wed, January 30, 2008 - 4:01 PMOk, I'm not actually looking but if someone finds me, I'm open..which may be hard to do coz I'm not out looking....LOL -
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Wed, January 30, 2008 - 5:18 PMtoo funny Bobbi.
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Wed, January 30, 2008 - 5:24 PMWell....I just don't know..LOL LOL -
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Wed, January 30, 2008 - 5:38 PMdo you know what it looks like? -
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Wed, January 30, 2008 - 5:42 PMDo I know what what looks like? LOL -
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Wed, January 30, 2008 - 5:49 PMwhat looking looks like.
Now I am being downright irreverent -
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Wed, January 30, 2008 - 9:21 PMI have no idea...enlightening me would ya? -
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Thu, January 31, 2008 - 4:21 PMSorry, a normally surpressed side of me came out yesterday.
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Thu, January 31, 2008 - 5:28 PMThat's ok, anytime ya feel surpressed, I'm here for ya. ;) and I'm fine, thanks :)
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Wed, January 30, 2008 - 5:40 PMwhy cant it be like goin to the grocery store pick out what you like and if its damaged take it back lmao! that would be great
I know this sounds messed up,lol but I vaguely remember going to a wedding when I was very young, probably around 6, maybe younger. I remember sitting down and watching the bride walk down the aisle and when she got to the alter, I noticed the groom, best man and ushers standing there, then I saw the bride walk up to the groom and back down the aisle again.Well I actually thought that when you get married, you go to the church in your beautiful gown, pick out the one you want from the line up and voila....Ok, I know I will deserve any comments that I get from admitting this but mind you that my thoughts were from the perception of a 6 year old...Unfortunatley, I thought this for a long tme after. LOL -
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Wed, January 30, 2008 - 5:48 PMSure, go to Costco and pick a couple of em up along with a tub o' Twizzlers, rib eyes and yoshida sauce. Yummmy.
"Umm, sorry but mine broke last night, I dont know what happened, I put gas in him, changed the oil and next thing I know there was smoke everywhere! can I just exchange him for something else?"
Actually Bobbi, nice visual from your story. Could be the mood I am in but it struck me as more sentimental/nostalgic than irreverent. Nice!
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Mon, February 4, 2008 - 11:00 PMNo silly...
That's what tribe is for! lmao
G-Lost Boy
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Wed, January 21, 2009 - 5:28 PMThere´s a sexy scorp for you... Comparing falling in love with grocery shopping.... -
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Wed, January 21, 2009 - 6:19 PMThere's a fucked in the head Sagittarius for you.
Dumped by any Aries lately? -
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Thu, January 22, 2009 - 2:29 PMNo, I´m a fucked in the head capricorn. -
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Thu, January 22, 2009 - 2:39 PMOh, and FREEE PALESTINE!
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Sat, February 9, 2008 - 9:30 PMYeah I'm looking. Not really actively though. Too lazy and busy hahahaha -
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Wed, January 21, 2009 - 6:15 PMi love grocery shopping... mmm food =] -
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Wed, January 21, 2009 - 11:59 PMI don't really look for Scorpios lol they usually find me,my ex Scorpio girl friend was quite obsessed about me lol,
but I did love her tho it's just she stung me and after that I never looked back lol,but I gotta tell you tho,
to me she was the funniest girl I ever meet in my life,and when she put her arms around me she made me feel so relaxed
and so loved,and the sex wow lol,she knew just what I liked!
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Thu, January 22, 2009 - 12:00 AMMiss you Autumn -
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Thu, January 22, 2009 - 8:35 AMMmmm, Twizzlers!
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Thu, January 22, 2009 - 1:14 PMbeware of numb skull she-male geminis who think they know all but dont -
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Fri, January 23, 2009 - 4:23 PMThis is a freaking tribe - we´re supposed to speak our minds aren´t we? Relax......The she-males are not gonna take over the world. The men still rule it. You can safley creep out of your hole, no need to beware. Jesus...
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Fri, January 23, 2009 - 7:57 PMit never happens when I'm looking. So even if I'm looking, I'm not looking.....(;
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Tue, April 28, 2009 - 9:55 PMmore like waiting in miserary
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Wed, April 29, 2009 - 5:37 AMhaving recently gotten out of a LTR with a very hard headed sun-aries/ moon-capricorn person , i'm looking/hoping to find a nice watery emotionally-intelligent and sensual pisces/cancer/scorpio woman ...
om mani padme hum
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Re: Alright, who's actually looking?
Fri, May 15, 2009 - 4:48 PMFor a relationship....
No.
For a booty call...
ALWAYS.
Preferably someone who knows how to use handcuffs ;)
If I ever do want another committed relationship it would have to b with a Pisces..... with a lot of earth in his chart... God, I love me a good Pisces man.